Chocolate is an item everyone loves to consume. It lifts spirits, assists people in stress and chocolate is the number one candy sold on Valentine’s Day.

Is chocolate an aphrodisiac or is that just a myth from ancient past? There have been extensive studies relating to this question for several years. Individuals that consume this product recall feeling more stimulated and at ease.

Some individuals feel that this is all in a person’s head, however, there may be facts to prove otherwise. This kind of candy is addicting. It relieves certain pains and discomforts a person may face.

Is it because from birth people are given chocolate for aches, pains, falls and emotional distress? This kind of candy is called the cure-all of foods. Everyone enjoys eating and drinking this product. Do individuals really believe that chocolate is an aphrodisiac? Most people do believe this as a fact.

Experts have done quite a few studies to figure out whether this candy is a cure-all and feel-good solution to any ailments. The ancient Aztecs believed famously that a piece of chocolate was an aphrodisiac. As soon as this candy was brought into the European nations, this idea came with it.

Many renowned people in history have used chocolate as an acceleration for the process of getting in the mood for love and togetherness. Throughout history people in authority have either banned this product or they have used it for its chemical properties to alter one’s state of mind. Various individuals that have done studies on chocolate have differed in their conclusions. There are on-going arguments that yes it is an aphrodisiac and no, it is all in a person’s head and mental state.

There are certain chemicals that are found in a chocolate substance that is released into the brain and other parts of the body. These chemicals cause most individuals to feel a shockwave of love and stimulation. There are some individuals that call chocolate a drug. This is technically a true statement. It has been proven without a doubt that this kind of candy does release certain chemicals into the brain.

The question is whether the chemicals are a mind altering substance or if they are a placebo. The mind and brain are powerful objects. They sometimes plays tricks on certain individuals. This may be the reason why people feel differently when they consume chocolate. The chemicals that are produced in the body from chocolate are Phenylethylamine, Dopamine, Serotonin and Theobromine. Phenylethylamine is a natural element that is found in the body’s system when an individual has emotional feelings of love and happiness. The other types of substances are mood altering affects, or the cure-all chemicals.

Different people show various signs when they eat or drink this product. Everyone has a difference of opinion on chocolate being an aphrodisiac. Also, every single person is different when it comes to drugs and the effect chemicals have on their brain and body. The only way to be absolutely sure if chocolate is a body and emotional stimulator is by each person testing it individually (that shouldn’t be hard to talk people into!)

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Jane Saeman has a Chocolate Fountain catering business.
She goes to lots of parties and comes back with lots of ideas.
Read about them onher blog at my website which is at www.ChocolateFountainDecadenceSite.com

Surprise your special female lover this year by pulling out moves she never knew you had. While lovemaking on its own can be fabulous, lovemaking with toys and special furniture can definitely add some much needed zing to many couples lives.

If you know that you want to enhance your lovemaking, but you are not sure how then this article is just for you.

You will not have to spend a great deal of money on toys and sexual enhancements. Most of the things that will excite a woman and push her over the edge are relatively inexpensive. This is especially true when you take into account that these items can be used several times and even for years as your relationship grows and flourishes.

If you want to introduce these new presents during Christmas, in hopes of jingling her bells, then you should consider giving her a special Christmas stocking with all the special goodies that you want to give to her. Of course, as we mentioned in our 12 Days of Giving article, you do not need to make a stocking. You could just give her the presents at random times or create a romantic evening where the presents all come out when you want her to experience them.

While you can place just about anything in your special Christmas arsenal, here are a few ideas for popular lovemaking enhancements.

Phallic Shaped Ice Molds
Ice is definitely one of the most certain ways to get a reaction from your lovely lady. Even the tamest girl can appreciate a little shock of cold ice against her hot flesh. You can use these ice molds during foreplay while melting the ice on her flesh or you can go a step further and chill her inside and out with some ice-cold lovemaking before you warm her up again.

Vibrator/Dildo
No Christmas stocking for her is going to be complete without both a vibrator and a dildo. Both items will serve their purposes well whether you are with her guiding the movements or she is enjoying sinful pleasures all alone. Vibrators make great presents because they often hit spots you cannot hit and they massage all the areas that provide the most pleasure.

Dildos on the other hand, provide a different lovemaking experience for a woman that only physically makes love to one man. Every dildo will provide a different sensation as they are all made from different materials and come in different sizes. Try to take these things into account when you are choosing one for your lover. For example, if you are a tight fit for her, you might not want to buy something that appears much bigger otherwise it may be uncomfortable for her.

Massage Oils
You can find an entire line of massage oils in different flavors. Of course, if oil isn’t your style you can find body toppings, butters, creams, and a host of other edible things you can place on her skin. These items will enhance oral lovemaking and provide an excellent basis for massaging and foreplay.

Lingerie
This is a fabulous pick because it’s something that is going to make her feel sexy. When she puts on lingerie and you instantly want to make love to her it makes her feel good. You can choose from a variety of items in a variety of fabrics. Buy something that you are certain you both will like. Even if she is wearing these scantily clad goodies under her clothes they will still make her feel sexy and provide her with the warmth and excitement that comes with knowing her loving man picked them out for her.

Penis Sleeves
While technically this is something that would be for the male it really benefits her during lovemaking. A penis sleeve is going to add length and texture to your penis. This provides new sensations for her while still offering her the steady lovemaking that she prefers with you.

Once she has opened her stocking, you will be able to initiate a whole new way of lovemaking, from foreplay to climax. She will be sure to love her presents and that will be obvious when she is begging for more of your sweet and sinful pleasures.

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Shayla Moore is a writer for www.oasislingerie.com She has many intresting topics and ideas for all to read about. Check out more of her articles.

Introducing adult sex toys into your relationship needn?t be embarrassing or uncomfortable for you or your partner. In this article we?ll examine the correct approach for the introduction of sex toys that will ultimately result in a better happier more fulfilling sex life.

The facts are simple, the maintenance of a fulfilling sex life is essential for the long term happiness of any couple. Old clich?s such as ?if it?s not happening in the bedroom, its not happening at all? couldn?t be more accurate. An unfulfilling sex life will ultimately lead to frustration and tension between the couple that then frequently spirals out of control resulting in a total breakdown of the sexual relationship. The worst case scenario is that either or both members of the relationship seek sexual gratification elsewhere. Far from ideal.

Adult sex toys offer a method by which a couple can enrich and enhance their sex lives without wandering outside of their existing relationship. By employing adult sex toys they not only enhance their own experience of sex but that of their partner resulting in a far happier relationship for both.

So what?s the correct approach?

Communication is essential in any relationship and when tackling the introduction of adult sex toys communication is particularly important. First and foremost it?s essential that you first discuss yours and your partner?s boundaries. Couple using sex toys for the first time may feel intimidated. As such it?s advisable that your first experiences with adult sex toys should not involve items with names like ?the Kong?!

Typically couple will wish to start will smaller adult toys that can give pleasure to both parties. Therefore when building up your confidence with sex toys we?d first suggest using smaller egg type vibrators that can be used for clitoral stimulation or alternatively vibrating penis rings. Both varieties offer satisfaction to both parties without placing either party in a situation where they may feel intimidated and threatened.

As yours and your partners confidence grows with your new sex toys you can start to explore your fantasies and express this with larger more advanced sex toys. It?s all about breaking down those barriers; the idea is to gradually work yourself into a situation where you can use any sex toy that your mind desires without your partner feeling uncomfortable or inadequate. It?s essential to understand that sex toys are an accessory to sex when used in a relationship and not an alternative.

Whilst using your new adult sex toys the first few times keep the communication channels open, ask your partner if what you?re doing is working for them. Keep doing this until you are confident that the sex toy is being used to its full potential. Couples that have never used vibrators can be overwhelmed by sensations that are new to them so you may have to avoid the most sensitive areas initially. In time however you?ll wonder how you ever coped without them!

The important thing to remember is that adult sex toys are designed to enhance your enjoyment of sex. They should be fun, something to be enjoyed with your partner. The taboo?s that may have surrounded these toys historically have been broken down over the years with adult sex toys now available on the High Street. Boots have recently announced that they are considering stocking their stores with basic sex toys. The fact is adult sex toys are here to stay, they continue to improve and including them in your bedroom activities will only bring positives to your relationship.

Enjoy.

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If you have been married or in a committed relationship for quite some time and you feel the need to find something to spice up your love life, why not introduce sex toys in the bedroom? For many people the mention of sex toys turns them off because they don’t equate them with intimate love.

But, sex toys can be fun and loving; it is all about how you approach it. If you are afraid that your spouse or partner will not go for the idea, approach the subject gently and in a way that is not threatening.

Make it Mutual

It’s always a good idea to make the sex toy thing something that you do together or at least offer to have it be something that you do together. Whatever you do, don’t make it seem like you want to try sex toys because the sex you are currently having isn’t good. Let your partner know that you are ready to branch out and try new things and that you want them to be a part of it because that will make it even more exciting. If you make sex toys a part of what both of you enjoy, it won’t be threatening and your spouse may just accompany you on your trip to the ‘toy store’!

Create a Small Toy Box Together

The first time you buy sex toys you might find yourself a bit overwhelmed, but relax and enjoy yourself. Think like a kid in the toy store; buy the things that you would most like to try with your partner. Make a deal before you go that you will each pick one or two items to try out. You can even buy yourselves a little toy box to keep them in so that they have a clean, private place to be stored when you are not playing with them.

Enjoy It When You Want

The great thing about sex toys that many couples do not understand is that they do not have to be a part of every sexual encounter. Instead, you can pull out your little box of goodies when you both want to, or you can enjoy sex with just the two of you. Playing with sex toys should enhance your sexual pleasure, but it does not have to be the source of your pleasure. Talk with your partner and let them know that you want them, but you want to spice things up from time to time, as well. This will likely be something that you will both enjoy very much once you are able to open up!

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Jenna Stevenson founded the sex toy forum The Latest Vibe and reviews sex toys at Batteries Not Included - Sex Toys UK

As long as a man has a penis, he will want it to be bigger. This obsession with a bigger manhood has fueled the rise and rise of the penis enlargement “industry”.

Hey, no man wants to have a tiny willy. Its hurting to the fragile male ego and an outright embarrassment to be seen in the men’s locker room.

So every man wants to get bigger but what is the best enlargement product out there for us? Is there even one? With so many products being touted by vendors, this can get really confusing. Pills, exercises, pumps, devices, etc are flooding the online market today. Spammers are in the act too.

Then someone came up with a brilliant idea : a holistic, 3-in-1 approach to male penis enlargement. But is this animal The Real M’coy? We will investigate it in this article.

The Combination Approach To Male Penile Enlargement : pills plus exercises plus device.

In order to assess this hybrid product, we will analyse each product individually for its true worth :

1) Penis enlargement pills

The penile pills are made of male aphrodisiac herbs that are good for the overall sexual functions of a man. It improves semen and sperm output, strengthens erections and may even make a penis look bigger, albeit temporarily. A male enlarging pill improves blood circulation to the penile tissues thus increasing the erect size of the penis. This will give the impression of a bigger manhood but it is surely not a permanent increase at all.

2) Penis enlargement exercises

Such exercises are commonly known as Jelqing. They do increase the length and girth of your manhood but is it the best enlargement product out there? If not done correctly, penis exercises can damage sensitive penile tissues leading to scarring and temporary impotence.

3) Penis enlargement devices

A penile enlargement device is variously known as a penis stretcher, penis traction device or penis extender. They work on the principle of tracton that is behind the success of orthopaedic surgery. This states that the body cells expand when a constant and measured traction force is applied to a part of the it. In the case of the male sexual organ, the enlargement device applies a small traction force on the length of penile shaft, stretching the tissues within and causing the cells therein to multiply and expand. Penis enlargement devices are clinically proven to work and are recommended by doctors even.

To summarize, if done properly, penis exercises and enlargement devices can help you enlarge your member permanently while penile pills assist in this enlargement process. The pills are like the supplements that body builders take - they don’t enlarge the organ by themselves directly but helps in the process.

Now that you know how each product work individually, it is clear that a combination approach (3-in-1) is the best deal - the best penis enlargement product. Not only do you get to enlarge your manhood, but you get to enlarge it quickly and with added benefits like harder erections, bigger ejaculations, etc. This holistic approach gives you the best of all worlds.

The next problem is finding a reliable, trusted, packaged product that has all 3 penis enhancement products in it. Its not difficult to do if you have the time. But if you don’t there are ready reports you can lay your hands on if your search for it.

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Gary T is the owner of www.AdultPenisGuide.com, a website dedicated to helping men get a bigger penis. Get free adult ebooks, articles, reviews and resources plus read this special review ProExtender System , a 3-in-1 penis enlargement system.

BDSM Christmas ideas can be hard to come by for many people. While BDSM is often a part of a persons life, Christmas is not normally a time when you think of kinky behavior.

However, that was until now. In all honesty, there are plenty of fun and kinky things that you can do to enhance your BDSM relationship.

Christmas Shopping Fun

Nothing is more fun than seeing your sexy submissive squirm. In fact, watching them squirm in public is even more satisfying especially in that pseudo-sadistic way. You will have the enjoyment of watching your submissive squirm knowing exactly why they are squirming.

If you are wondering how to make them squirm you could use vibrating panties or a butterfly vibrator. Just have your submissive put the panties on, and you can hold onto the remote. Give them a little buzz or a long buzz whenever you feel like it. While the vibrations are quite powerful they are also very quiet. This will ensure that you can flip the switch to turn the vibrator on during lunch or while picking out a Christmas present for family or a friend.

This form of shopping fun is sure to make any submissive melt with desire. Many couples involved in BDSM often experiment with orgasm control and denial. This occurs when the dominant controls and allows the climax that the submissive has. If you are interested in trying this out or working on your technique there is no better place to try it than in public. Chances are, your submissive is going to do everything they can not to have a climax in the middle of the local Walmart or at the grocery store. So, if you are looking for a way to build their self control then this is it.

Bondage, Blindfolds, and Christmas Cookies

Sensation play is one of the most popular activities in BDSM. For those unaware, sensation play is anything that provides physical sensations for the submissive. This is actually an excellent form of play for people that are not into BDSM, as well because you can change the level of play to suit your needs. While some people might use feathers others might consider sensation play to be about bondage and spankings.

For Christmastime we will stray from the spankings, for now, and focus on the unexpected. A fun holiday themed event could take place with your submissive sitting in a bondage chair. These inflatable chairs are great because they come with readymade restraints and you just need to secure the submissive into place. Add a blindfold and your submissive is your own little captive. Now is the time to bring the sensations into play.

While you could spend some time tickling feathers over their body, touching them in various ways, or letting them feel the whip, we have something else in mind when mentioning sensation play. Tonight why not take advantage of the fact that your submissive is tied up and cannot see. With them blindfolded you can let them experience a Christmas feast.

Essentially, anything could be placed in the submissives mouth so what you feed them would be up to you. Of course, as it is Christmas you could try to stick to the common theme. Start with a sugar cookie, some fudge, or fruitcake. Eventually add in something you think they will not be overly fond of. This allows you to see their reaction and it ensures that they know who is in control and that they do not know what to expect.

As the night progresses and your submissive is able to please you it may be time to offer them something else to show your happiness in their behavior and skill as a submissive. Of course, you could also leave them tied up and wanting more as you go about your holiday.

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Shayla Moore is a writer for www.oasislingerie.com She has many intresting topics and ideas for all to read about. Check out more of her articles.

Oral sex is something that is still quite taboo. In fact, it’s something that friends don’t typically sit around and talk about. Women can have best friends, but they won’t tell one another that they perform oral sex on their boyfriends, husbands, or anyone.

Men are the same way, they won’t tell their friends that they perform oral sex on the woman in their life, but both sexes are open to discussing the fact that they receive it! What’s wrong with this picture? Why is there something negative or dirty associated with being the one that performs oral sex? With so many people out there receiving, someone has to be giving, so why not admit it to your friends or those that you discuss your sex life with?

Where the negativity comes from is anyone’s guess, but it is really something that should be done away with already! Oral sex is just one more way to express your attraction to and love of another person. There is no reason to be ashamed of your enjoyment of oral sex, on both the receiving and giving side of things. It’s understandable that both men and women feel a little bit intimidated of oral sex when they first step into the oral sex arena, but it’s something that the majority of us do, and really enjoy.

There is a fear by both men and women that they are not “good” at oral sex. If you have good communication with the people that you are sexual with, you can ask what they like, what they don’t like, and what you could do different to make the oral sex experience even more pleasurable. When you bring oral sex into your sex life that you share with someone, you have reached a level of intimacy that should allow you to express what you do and do not like. If you are able to communicate you can be sure that you will be good and get good oral sex, if not, you can take your chances!

The bottom line is that oral sex is something to be enjoyed, and is not something that should be hidden or considered shameful. When you perform such sexual acts you are simply making someone feel good, which makes you feel good. Isn’t that what sex is all about? If so, why be ashamed? Next time someone asks you if you are into oral sex, don’t lie! Tell it like it is!

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Jenna Stevenson founded the sex toy forum The Latest Vibe and reviews sex toys at Batteries Not Included - Sex Toys UK

First and foremost, it is always recommended that you use a lubricant when engaging in activities with sex toys.
It’s not just a health matter; it’s a pleasure thing.

A well-chosen lubricant can dramatically enhance your sexual ecstasy and experience, adding delightful smoothness and sensations to anytype of stimulation while reducing friction on sensitive genital tissue.

Whether your self-pleasuring, using a toy, or engaging in passionate intercourse, lubrication increases your sensitivity by creating smoother, slipperier, and softer surfaces.

Lubes are manufactured in many different consistencies, colors, and even flavors to match the variety of lubrication applications. It is best to experiment and find the right one for you and for your sex toy. Lubricants make sex toys or masturbation feel more realistic.

Ask yourself what you want most in a lubricant, and what you’ll be using it for: solo sex, toy fun, a combination of sex toys and your partner, bath time fun? Is it for vaginal intercourse? Is it for anal penetration? Is it for masturbation? Once you’ve answered those questions, and read our guide you’ll be well on to your way to choosing a lube.

Currently three kinds of base for lubricants exist: water-based oil-based, and silicone.

Water Based

Water based lubricants are made mostly of water and are safe to use with all sex toys, condoms, or diaphragms. They are similar to the feel of natural vaginal fluids and today’s modern high quality water based lubricants offer long lasting lubrication, while not staining or becoming sticky. They also offer a “wetter” more gliding feel than the oil-based lubricants. Water-based lubricants often feature a variety of flavors or colors to make using lubricant more appealing for couples but if you are looking for an internal vaginal lubricant, Make sure the one you choose does not contain sugar as this can cause yeast infections in women. Water-based lubricants are your best bet for all purpose lubes, as they can be used for all intended purposes.

Popular water based lubes :
Wet Original,WetLight,Climax H2o,Probe,Hydra Smooth,IDGlide, ID Pleasure,Moist

Silicone Based

Silicone lubricants give us the best of both worlds: the highly arousing slick feels of oil plus the safety-first advantages of water-based lube. Silicone based lubricants are similar to the water based variety, in that they are safe to use with condoms and latex or rubber sex toys but they have the added advantage of being waterproof which makes them incredible for use in the water. They are generally a bit more expensive, but also are more concentrated and longer lasting than water based lubricants, so a little bit goes much further. They can, however, cause sex toys that are made from silicone or realistic materials such as CyberSkin or UR3 to break down so make sure not to use them together.

Popular silicone lubes: ID Velvet,ID Millenium,Pjur Eros Original,Moist Gel

Oil Based

Oil-based lubricants are usually made from natural products, such as vegetable oils and nut oils and have a thick, rich texture that enhances your sensitivity and provides extremely cushioned friction. However ones needs to be careful when using oil based lubricants as Oil destroys latex on contact, which means you can’t use it with condoms or diaphragms, and it stains fabric, so be careful.

Popular oils based lubricants: ID Cream

Some women believe that because they lubricate naturally, they don’t need a lube. Every couple will find their lovemaking benefits from the use of lube. Even if you’re the type of woman whose natural lube needs very little persuasion, an extra lubricant can add a whole new dimension to sex, helping you and your partner pick up sensations you’ve never felt before.

Every woman goes through certain days within the menstrual cycle, just after childbirth, during or after the menopause when natural lubrication needs a helping hand and on these occasions lube provides a simple, fun and highly effective way of continuing a healthy sex-life. Stress, tiredness, some over the counter drugs and the pill can also contribute to a dryer than normal vagina so make sure you use a lubricant during these times to ensure a healthy and pleasurable sex life.

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Leila Gabrielle is the sexual expert forSensual Seductions. See more great articles and better sex advice from Leila at Sensual Seductions. Anticipate fulfilling your sexual needs and desires, while you increase your health and sexual well being!

Vibrators And Sex Toys

Would you describe your sex life as dull, boring and ‘not happening’?

Would you like to try out vibrators and sex toys to add a spark to your love life?

If you answer this in negative, vibrators and sex toy are not meant for you.

However, if you identify yourself with the above situation and this is your very first attempt to find an adult sex toy online, read on.

If you are a first-timer, seeing a sex toy online will be an altogether new experience for you. Selecting the best adult toy from the never ending list of sex toys online will be a task easier said than done. Deciding which sex toy to buy comes much later.

Vibrators and sex toys may be new for you but they certainly are not new online. You will find loads of online sites offering attractive range of sex toys in UK. You will be surprised to know that many adventurous, fun-loving people in the UK have already tried sex toys. You will also find many couples in the UK who have almost all types of sex toys and vibrators and try different toys every time they feel boredom is creeping in their sex lives.

For people who wish to buy adult toys for the first time, below is information that will help them select the best adult sex toys online in the UK.

The most preferred adult toy online is a vibrator. The popularity and fame of a vibrator is a mystery to quite a many. Let’s be the first one to crack this mystery and go deep within (no pun intended).

World of Vibrators

Vibrators were first designed and intended for women. For ages and ages, orgasm was most elusive to women. However when vibrators came into existence, the ever-elusive orgasm for women became a reality.

Believe it or not, some women who had been married for decades did not achieve an orgasm for a single day. But when they did venture out and bought a vibrator, they achieved multiple breathtaking orgasms without much ado.

So what is a vibrator actually?A vibrator is a device which provides vibrating sensations which lead a woman to achieve orgasm. Vibrators are of many types - from pearl rabbit vibrators to waterproof vibrators, from G-spot vibrators to realistic dildo shaped vibrators.

When vibrators for women became famous, men too wished to have something for them. Vibrators for men soon followed and vibrating cock rings and other adult toys came into existence.

Now vibrators for men share as much popularity as vibrators for women.

Apart from vibrators other sex toys such as dildos, anal toys such as butt plugs, bunny vibrators and dongs, bondage toys, etc. are also stealing the show in the UK and other countries.

Selecting the best adult sex toy online depends on three major factors - price, quality and the type of sex toy which suits your taste.

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In biblical times it was referred to as “knowing”. Today the act of sexual intercourse between couples is most often relegated to “having sex” or “making love”.

It isn’t that “making love” is really negative. It’s definitely preferable to “having sex” particularly when your married.

I would just like to take a few minutes to examine how our language might be coloring our perception of the act and the relationship between a husband and wife.

When we look at the term to “know” - among other looser definitions one of them includes - “be cognizant or aware of a fact or a specific piece of information”.

To “have sex” implies the act - without emotional involvement.

To “make love” has been generally regarded as the more intimate version of intercourse between a husband and wife. Then I started thinking about it. If “love” already exists - how can you make it? If the cake is already done you don’t make it again.

In a way “making” love implies that you are attempting to create something that doesn’t exist. You may have the ingredients for love but - it isn’t there in it’s ultimate form.

So if our beliefs lead to our thoughts which dictate our actions and our intent is to “make love” with our spouse, isn’t making love a self-defeating action?

Aren’t we still trying to use the external or physical to create something internal? Something so delicate and beautiful yet blazing with passion that men and women have dedicated volumes to it’s description?

The human race has tried to expand on something that was written almost 2000 years ago where in the Greek language the word Charity was “Agape” or the broader sense of the word “Love.

1 Corinthians 13:1-13

1) Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.

2) And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.

3) And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.

4) Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,

5) Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;

6) Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;

7) Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

8) Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.

9) For we know in part, and we prophesy in part.

10) But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.

11) When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.

12) For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.

13) And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.

And yes - much was written long before then too.

In the end - if you understand the power of your thoughts and words to initiate your actions. The next time you embrace your spouse and wish to enjoy those moments of pure bliss - remember this; you aren’t “making love” - you don’t need to create something new - you are simply sharing an intimate moment (hour or two). The physical expression of the love that already exists between the two of you.

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Kira Wagner is a living example of recognizing choices to achieve tremendous results. Born to blind parents, she’s aware that the only handicaps are those we place on ourselves.
Kira Wagner is a speaker, writer and coach. For additional information visit my website at www.sexualfreedomforthemarriedwoman.com.